10 things to do after a break up
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In order to save a life from heartbreak in this harsh world, I would like to contribute and type this post to help.
It's in my opinion but sure, there are many ways to stop your heart from breaking.
I let my heart break for sometime now and the wall from my heart that I built for 4 years had just crumbled into pieces and my heart is shattered into pieces and falling into a hollow ground.
All I have to do now is just move on, pick the pieces back again and be stronger than ever. A wall that only a few people can break but not from a man anymore.
To the people had just ended their friendship in an ugly way, you can also relate because friends are irreplaceable and separating with them also can cause heartbreak likefuck.
So here I go...
10 Things To Do After A Break Up:
1. Go on a vacation. Going on a vacation actually helps because you're going to have a breather after you broke up/got dumped. It helps you to see that there's a better world out there and see the beauty of the world and also, you're going to a place where nobody even knows his name and have fun doing things that you've never done before.
2. Don't ever to listen to sad songs. It's funny as to why I stated this right? This is because if you listen to heartbreaking songs, you're gonna cry even harder and your eyes are gonna befucking swollen the next day and you don't want it to happen right? This isn't my main point - it's because your heart can't even take the pain anymore and by listening to sad songs, you'll be even more sad and you start to think about a lot of things on how to get them back and thinking about the things you both had done together. DON'T. Don't think. If you want to cry yourself to sleep, just CRY. There's no harm on crying yourself to sleep because you fucking deserve to cry after a heartbreak.
3. Cry. Crying actually helps you feel better because if you don't cry, you're gonna explode when time comes. And as a girl-going-to-be-woman, we have emotions (unlike guys) and we need these emotions to let it all out. But if you're thinking that 'crying doesn't help' or 'crying over spilled milk is useless, GO AND BANG TO THE WALL YOURSELF. We all DO know that crying doesn't help turn back time but it does help us by feeling a bit better by washing all your emotions away. I might be stereotyping but men do have feelings too but it's just that they let it out by physical but not emotional.
4. Be rational. After a break up, you seem to be very close minded and not opening your eyes to see another perspective and you start going on Facebook or Twitter to just unfriend/unfollow them. DON'T. This small act means that you're childish and you don't wanna let your natural feelings go away from them but I can't help/blame that if you wanna delete them from your life and bother with them anymore and think that it's the fastest way to get over someone. You can delete your photos that you took with him/her, deleting your Whatsapp chat with him but I don't blame you if you wanna keep some photos which are valuable when you're friends with them.
In order to save a life from heartbreak in this harsh world, I would like to contribute and type this post to help.
It's in my opinion but sure, there are many ways to stop your heart from breaking.
I let my heart break for sometime now and the wall from my heart that I built for 4 years had just crumbled into pieces and my heart is shattered into pieces and falling into a hollow ground.
All I have to do now is just move on, pick the pieces back again and be stronger than ever. A wall that only a few people can break but not from a man anymore.
To the people had just ended their friendship in an ugly way, you can also relate because friends are irreplaceable and separating with them also can cause heartbreak like
So here I go...
10 Things To Do After A Break Up:
1. Go on a vacation. Going on a vacation actually helps because you're going to have a breather after you broke up/got dumped. It helps you to see that there's a better world out there and see the beauty of the world and also, you're going to a place where nobody even knows his name and have fun doing things that you've never done before.
2. Don't ever to listen to sad songs. It's funny as to why I stated this right? This is because if you listen to heartbreaking songs, you're gonna cry even harder and your eyes are gonna be
3. Cry. Crying actually helps you feel better because if you don't cry, you're gonna explode when time comes. And as a girl-going-to-be-woman, we have emotions (unlike guys) and we need these emotions to let it all out. But if you're thinking that 'crying doesn't help' or 'crying over spilled milk is useless, GO AND BANG TO THE WALL YOURSELF. We all DO know that crying doesn't help turn back time but it does help us by feeling a bit better by washing all your emotions away. I might be stereotyping but men do have feelings too but it's just that they let it out by physical but not emotional.
4. Be rational. After a break up, you seem to be very close minded and not opening your eyes to see another perspective and you start going on Facebook or Twitter to just unfriend/unfollow them. DON'T. This small act means that you're childish and you don't wanna let your natural feelings go away from them but I can't help/blame that if you wanna delete them from your life and bother with them anymore and think that it's the fastest way to get over someone. You can delete your photos that you took with him/her, deleting your Whatsapp chat with him but I don't blame you if you wanna keep some photos which are valuable when you're friends with them.
5. Build more connections with family and friends. As you just broke up or having a post mortem break up, build more connections with your family and friends because you wouldn't wanna miss out on anything that they want to share with you. Remember, FAMILY ALWAYS COMES FIRST BECAUSE THEY'RE HERE FOR YOU WHEN NO ONE DOESN'T. They deserve the rights to know everything. Put your family first before friends. :) If you had disconnect with your friends due to girlfriend or boyfriend issues, apologise and explain to them. They'll understand. But if your friends stay away from you, leave them. Because due to breakups, you can also see who are the ones who stay strong with and for you. :)
6. Make more friends. Make more friends because 1) they don't know who your ex is, 2) they give you a fresh start of life, 3) make your circle even larger once in a while. Surround yourself with new people and try to look at things with different perspective.
7. Do things that you love. By doing more things that we actually love, we can occupy ourselves to be busy and just forget them in the meantime because we don't want the hurt to keep haunting us right? And we also get to do the things we love most which makes us happy in the same time!
8. Don't see their social media in a while. While we're recuperating our hearts, we also want to see their social media whether they're doing fine and things you wanna know right? Well, we can't avoid that but it's BETTER to actually avoid seeing their social media in a while. We can't take how much information that you wanna know in their lives after both sides had separated. Moreover, we tend to overthink whether they've gone out with another girl/guy or not...so it's better not to see. Once you know that you've got over it, it's safe to see their social media again.
9. Spend more time with yourself. By stating this I actually meant spend more time communicating with yourself because we tend to be lost after we broke up and so by doing this, actually helps you get back yourself on track and state some goals that you wanna pursue in the future. It helps :) Talk to yourself so that you can sort yourself out and create a stronger connection with yourself so that the self within you don't go weak. Everybody does it.
10. LOVE YOURSELF. If you don't love yourself, you can never love someone else and if you don't love yourself, who loves you? :) I always believe that if you can't love yourself, you can never bring yourself to love someone else. Because YOU DESERVE MORE THAN THIS. You deserve way better things ahead of you! For the girls and guys out there, please don't resort to cutting yourself or go for drugs/commit suicide because you're making yourself even more pathetic. No offence but this is how I really feel by looking at so many people around me doing this. Love yourself, pamper yourself! :)
I hope I helped you all out there and good luck with finding 'THE ONE' for you even though it's so fucking hard! I've spent a lot of time and months on writing this post because due to assignments and finals bothering me with it and therefore, I finally managed to finish this! I'll be spending my time writing another post related to this. All the 10 criteria above are originally from me and mine alone. No plagiarising in this post itself.
With all my love, xoxo, Cecilia. :)
8. Don't see their social media in a while. While we're recuperating our hearts, we also want to see their social media whether they're doing fine and things you wanna know right? Well, we can't avoid that but it's BETTER to actually avoid seeing their social media in a while. We can't take how much information that you wanna know in their lives after both sides had separated. Moreover, we tend to overthink whether they've gone out with another girl/guy or not...so it's better not to see. Once you know that you've got over it, it's safe to see their social media again.
9. Spend more time with yourself. By stating this I actually meant spend more time communicating with yourself because we tend to be lost after we broke up and so by doing this, actually helps you get back yourself on track and state some goals that you wanna pursue in the future. It helps :) Talk to yourself so that you can sort yourself out and create a stronger connection with yourself so that the self within you don't go weak. Everybody does it.
10. LOVE YOURSELF. If you don't love yourself, you can never love someone else and if you don't love yourself, who loves you? :) I always believe that if you can't love yourself, you can never bring yourself to love someone else. Because YOU DESERVE MORE THAN THIS. You deserve way better things ahead of you! For the girls and guys out there, please don't resort to cutting yourself or go for drugs/commit suicide because you're making yourself even more pathetic. No offence but this is how I really feel by looking at so many people around me doing this. Love yourself, pamper yourself! :)
I hope I helped you all out there and good luck with finding 'THE ONE' for you even though it's so fucking hard! I've spent a lot of time and months on writing this post because due to assignments and finals bothering me with it and therefore, I finally managed to finish this! I'll be spending my time writing another post related to this. All the 10 criteria above are originally from me and mine alone. No plagiarising in this post itself.
With all my love, xoxo, Cecilia. :)
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